
As I sat at the kitchen table with my sister, Theresa, she began to tell me that I should "move on." Everyone was offering nearly identical advice: "move on, move on, move on." "Get a fresh start." "You'll feel better in a new location."
Really? Even with the laws of quantum physics at my disposal, how does one forget? Time and space are irrelevant when your memories still haunt you. You may be able to temporarily fill the days with new adventures to soothe your broken heart, but how does one delete the thoughts that wake us in the middle of the night? Those thoughts which man (or woman) has no control over. The memories of children running down the hall at 5 a.m. on Christmas mornings, of family beach vacations, of gatherings of friends in the home you no longer live in, and the stabbing pain of your precious pet going to his rest. No matter what you do in the present or future, the past will wake you in the night. The real trick is to find a way to turn that intense pain into pleasant memories rather than the hollow ring of knowing that you will never experience them again. Does a mastery over time and space help? No.
No matter what you do, no matter what you learn, the moments that make memories continue to be fleeting. Any advice, Mr. Hawking?
Well, Aunt Catherine didn't spend all of her time stirring the sauce. LOL!
ReplyDelete(Take that, Stephen Hawking.) Love it!!
"You'll feel better in a new location." =(
Time and space are irrelevant when your memories still haunt you. Wow....
and the stabbing pain of your precious pet going to his rest {{{hugs}}}}
Does a mastery over time and space help? No. Lol..so true..
Any advice, Mr. Hawking? Excellent work Aunt Catherine Diana!!!
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